A Relationship Crisis Sometimes Has a Long Run-Up

Your relationship matters in your life. Unfortunately, many people stay stuck in a relationship they're not fully happy with.

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Fear of Commitment and Fear of Abandonment in Your Relationship

At the start of your relationship, but also once you're in one, you can struggle with fear of commitment or fear of abandonment. What can you do about it?

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Fight Anxiety and Stress — Take a Cold Shower!

Feeling anxious or stressed? Try a cold shower — it makes you healthier, more energetic, and happier.

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How Do You Get Rid of Your Anxiety?

Hypnotherapy is an effective treatment for anxiety. It helps reduce both the symptoms and their impact on daily life.

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How a Depression Leads to More Meaning

I share the story of my own depression and what I did to come out of it, and how different life can look afterward.

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How Do You Move Forward When Your Partner Has Cheated?

How do you move on when one of you has cheated? Infidelity cuts deep. How do you face the future together again?

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The Effects of Power in Relationships

Power is a curious thing, especially in relationships. Yet I see it often, even in loving ones, and I help people break out of that pattern.

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A Happy Relationship After a Midlife Crisis

Can you still enjoy the small things, or does life feel dull and predictable? Sharing moments of happiness together.

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How Do You Make Sure You Don't Drift Apart?

Are you and your partner living two separate lives? These tips can help you truly start living together again.

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Suddenly I Realized: I Give More Than I Receive

I gave everything, and my relationship still nearly fell apart! Here's how I saved it with the help of individual therapy.

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Consequences of Past Emotional Neglect in Your Current Relationship

The effects of emotional neglect can play a role in your relationship. Suppressing your emotions is one of them.

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Can You Move Forward Together After Infidelity?

One clear difference between men and women is how they handle infidelity or an affair. Can you move forward together after cheating?

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Irritations in Relationships

Irritations in relationships. What you once loved about him now gets on your nerves. This article offers examples and solutions.

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Let's Talk About Sex

In my practice, I notice clients often find it hard to talk about sex. Yet that's essential if you want more intimacy.

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My Partner Cheated — What Now?

"My partner cheated — what do you do? Stop, or keep going?" Read on.

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What Actually Is Intimacy, and How Can You Work on It?

Intimacy in your relationship — what does that actually mean? And how do you work on it? Read on.

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A Fantastic Relationship, But Too Little Intimacy. Where Does It Go Wrong?

A happy relationship, but too little sex. How do you turn the tide? Read more about it in this article.

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Infidelity and the Month of December

December is just around the corner. Normally a month to look forward to. But this year is different — your partner has cheated.

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That Empty Feeling After Sex!

You might recognize this: after a wonderful time in bed, you're suddenly hit by an empty feeling you can't quite explain.

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Can You Still Love Someone Else After Your Partner Has Passed Away?

Losing a loved one can feel like losing a piece of yourself, as if you've lost your other half. This pain deserves attention.

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What to Do About Heartbreak?

Heartbreak hurts. It's literal heartache. And alongside that, there can be all kinds of other emotions competing for priority.

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Jealousy in the Relationship

Jealousy in a relationship can be a real problem, especially right after discovering your partner has cheated. How do you deal with it?

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Relationship Issues During Corona

The shock was as great as if the ground was sinking under her feet. She had trusted her partner unconditionally and now he had cheated.

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Why Do People Feel Ashamed About Having Had Corona?

Why do people feel ashamed about having had corona, and what is corona shame? You don't even dare talk about it.

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Making Yourself Vulnerable — Why Would You?

Making yourself vulnerable is really something different from oversharing your troubles with a stranger, or constantly digging up old grievances.

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How Can You Get Rid of your Partner the Fastest

During a live broadcast about Corona, a Spanish journalist was painfully caught cheating. He now has lost both his wife and his lover.

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There's No Attention for My Wishes and Needs

What do you do when you feel your partner has no attention for your wishes and needs? Read on to find out.

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Your Attachment Style Characterizes your Relationship. There is Something to Do About It.

You unconsciously take the way in which you are attached as a young child and draw your later (partner) relationships. You can change that.

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Interview With Daniel Priestley

Entrepreneurs love to develop their business and they love personal development. Often they grow in a different direction from their spouse.

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The Modern Man and His Libido

A higher libido gives a stronger sense of masculinity. How do you increase sex and intimacy in your relationship? What can you do to increase your libido? 

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Interview With Peter Verboom - Eft Nederland

We discuss the patterns of successful businesspeople and their relationships. We talk about the things you can do yourself to improve your relationship.

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My Husband Has Cheated and Now I Am Going to Therapy

My husband has cheated and now I am going to therapy. He is afraid that the therapist will judge him and tell me to leave him.

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Teachings of Esther Perel

Esther addresses three questions, dilemmas and uncertainties that she teaches to professionals, and how to deal with them.

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He Wants Sex, but Her Head is Not There

I want more sex than my wife. She convinced me to go to couples therapy. She wants to talk, but I'm not really looking forward to that.

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Sex Drive Does Not Come

We've become more like buddies, and we're missing the intimacy and sex in our relationship. I'm afraid that if we don't act, we'll be next.

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The Secret of a Good Relationship: Give Each Other Space

More and more couples have been married for fifty or sixty years. A lot of people wait too long befor getting help. What is the secret of a good marriage?

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Infidelity at Work

15 percent of people say they've had sex with a colleague at some point, even when one (or both) of them was in a relationship.

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Moving Forward After a Breach of Trust

When your partner cheats, it's a major breach of trust. But how do you move forward (together) afterward? This article tells you more.

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Like Brother and Sister

Sometimes your relationship starts to feel like brother and sister. It's still pleasant, but the intimacy keeps fading. Isn't sex supposed to come naturally?

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"I Don't Feel Appreciated in My Relationship"

Do you feel like you barely matter in your relationship? Grow closer together and discover the tips in this article.

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Why Do We Cheat?

According to Durex's annual sex survey, 31% of people cheat. What exactly counts as cheating? And why do people do it?

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Is It Time to Start Working on Your Love Life?

Don't settle for a relationship that scores less than an eight. Time to make love work for you! Discover how here.

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