The Modern Man and His Libido
The moderen man and his libido
A higher libido gives a stronger sense of masculinity. How do you increase sex and intimacy in your relationship? What can you do to increase your libido? What is a multiple orgasm and how do you learn it? That is what this blog is about.
Sex that sparks
The amount of sex is often a good indicator of the relationship. The more sex and intimacy, the more partners feel connected. In the first year of the relationship, there is often a lot of sex and it usually all goes by itself.
Then there comes a time when you realize that the sparks don’t really fly off. You fall into a routine and in a number of relationships sex completely disappears.
Relationship problems and sexual problems
Sex often does not go well when there are tensions in the relationship. If communication is poor in other areas, it also affects sexual contact. With regard to the sexual relationship, men often complain about the passivity of their wives, while women complain about the “act” of the man.
Women can often enjoy sex more when there is sufficient support and affection in other areas of the relationship, while many men can give more support and love when sex is experienced as good.
The relationship between intimacy and sex
Intimacy is about a sense of closeness and loving contact with your partner. Intimacy is very important for a relationship to succeed. Is the relationship with your partner pleasant and do you feel intimate with each other? Then that has a positive effect on sexuality. You dare to expose yourself earlier and you feel more confident to indicate what you like or dislike.
There is often less pressure on lovemaking, because that is no longer the main way of showing each other love and affection. Intimacy can lead to lovemaking, but you don’t have to.
What can you do to improve the intimacy in your relationship?
\tCompliment each other
\tHugging and touching each other
\tHave respect for each other
\tBe vulnerable. Say what you feel and what you want.
Low libido
If your libido is on the low side, you often have less sex drive. The need for or amount of sex drive varies from person to person. If you do not feel like having sex for a longer period, we also speak of a reduced or low libido.
Many people think that less love to make love is mainly a woman’s problem, but it is just as likely that a man does not feel like having sex. 16% of men sometimes have less sex drive, 45% of women. It is quite normal to occasionally feel less or no desire to have sex. A lot of stress can also be a reason why you feel less sex for a while.
What can you do to increase your libido?
\tWorking on your relationship, understanding each other better, empathizing, making things open for discussion.
\tCold showering increases your libido. Do it for 10 minutes every day. Ice cold.
\tStress lowers your libido. Taking a bath or a massage can help you relax and get into a better mood.
\tLess cumming ensures a higher libido. You can disconnect your ejaculation from your orgasm. You can have multiple mini orgasms without cumming. This is part of transformation sexuality. More about this later in this blog.
\tThrough strength training you stimulate the production of testosterone. Testosterone ensures muscle growth, has a positive effect on your mood, libido and energy.
\tLimit drinking beer. This stimulates the production of the hormone estrogen, the counterpart of testosterone.
Good sex
You can see too little sex as a problem and, for example, go to a sexologist to investigate what is wrong. You can also see sex as part of your personal development. In our western, pornographically oriented and self-oriented society, there is often a fixation on cumshot (ejaculation).
When you lie in bed with your partner, your bodies communicate with each other as words never can. Good sex makes you more free in your body, clearer in mind, it makes you smoother and it makes hormones that make you feel happy.
Good sex is: free sex, fun sex, loving sex, happy sex and especially physical sex. Good sex is also looking beyond the boundaries of what you think is normal. Leave your trepidation and put your desire in the spotlight. Making love in the kitchen, in nature, next to the fireplace, in the rain in a mountain hut, etc.
Sexual development
Many men consider orgasms to be their orgasms. That’s not quite right. You can experience both separately. So cum without orgasm and orgasm without orgasm.
Chinese Taoists have preserved and passed on knowledge about ‘that other form’ of sexuality. They passed on their bedroom secrets to each other for thousands of years.
In their treasure chest is a manual on how to become multiple orgasmic, as a man.
You can learn how to send orgasmic energy through your body and transform it into vitality. With sex you charge your own batteries. You feel good in your own skin. You are sick less often.
The multiple orgasm takes you far beyond the limits of your current short-peak orgasm. You can repeat this new orgasm more often in succession. The areas between the orgasms become more beautiful, richer, more exciting. The Taoists call this transformation sexuality.
The effects of a multiple orgasm
\tYou become a better lover
\tYou get more energy
\tYou become healthier
\tYou become a nicer, wiser man
\tYour relationship is improving
\tYour partner thrives on it
\tSex is no longer boring
How can you learn multiple orgasms as a man?
You can also learn this knowledge - about how you circulate your sexual energy, allowing you to have sex longer, orgasms intensify and become more powerful and healthier.
Taotrainer Reinoud Eleveld gives a multi-year TAO training program in which he passes on the modern interpretation of Taoist initiation knowledge. This is a complete system of self-healing and consciousness development, based on until recently secret formulas from ancient China, the Nei Dan Kung. The transformation of sexual energy is at the basis of this training.
For people who only want to learn the multiple orgasm part, he has the online program the multiple man developed in which you are provided with all the tools that teach you how to become a multiple orgasmic man.